My father called me yesterday. “I’m planning another remembrance celebration for your mom,” he told me. This April will mark two years that my mom passed. Last year, Dad had requested that folks close to Mom, who so wished, compose a letter to her and bring it to a private celebration. On the day marking her passing, letters were read, one by one, at a favorite coffee shop in her home town in Portland, Oregon. In a small, intimate gathering, my Dad created the space to honor my beautiful mom’s life.
This year he is proposing a new idea called, “Imagine.” “Imagine what your mom might be doing now,” he said. Thus, I dedicate today’s slice of life to her…
I imagine…
Mom back at the college, working with her beloved students. She continues to teach in the early childhood education program, helping to lift the lives of immigrant women and playing a part in fulfilling their dreams of becoming certified teachers here in the United States.
I imagine…
Mom planning her next trip to Hawaii with her closest cousin and friend, Brenda. Perhaps their trip is postponed, as Brenda recently suffered the loss of her own mother. But knowing them, a cancellation would out of the question…they would still travel.
I imagine…
Mom finding her next path for learning. Whether it be enrolling in a foreign language class, ukulele lessons, a home-made bookmaking course, a quilting circle, my mother continues to always live as a life-long learner. Constantly seeking a new creative direction, I imagine Mom continuing to find new learning journeys.
I imagine…
Mom sewing clothes for her three granddaughters. Maybe some new winter hats, or spring dresses…perhaps new jackets or colorful pants. Her hand-made apparel remains abundant in my house, reminding us all of her talents and generosity.
I imagine…
Mom’s optimistic spirit still elevating those around her.
For that is who she was.
So much love in your imagines, Lanny. You don’t have to imagine her spirit still lifting people around her. Clearly, that’s still happening.
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Lanny, your mom sounds amazing! What a lovely way to honor her.
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Your slice beautifully and nobly honors her.
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This is so beautiful! I started to imagine what my mother would be doing now. Perhaps I will have to write about it.
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I didn’t know whether to smile or cry with your post, my own mother gone for twenty-three years. Your mother seems like an incredible person; I’m glad your father chooses to celebrate her life with an affirming way to grieve.
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What a beautiful tribute to your Mom. She sounds like a wonderful woman.
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Your mom sounds lovely. So does your dad. What a thoughtful was to celebrate a woman that obviously meant to much to many.
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What a lovely tribute to your mom! I love your dad’s prompt for this year’s memorial. I “Imagine” I’ll steal it.
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I don’t know how to express better what the rest have said of this slice! So touching and beautiful. I love your dad for planning a new remembrance celebration, the theme he picked and your own images of your mom today. Thanks for sharing!
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Beautiful tribute to your mother. She sounds amazing. And a great idea to honor any loved one.
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I really love how your words painted such a picture of the woman that your mother was. I lost my mom four years ago, and I still struggle to figure out how to write about her.
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Wow! I love the ideas of letters to your mom and the ‘I Imagine’ idea. What a beautiful, warm post. Your mom sounds like she was amazing. I chose to read this because tomorrow would have been my mom’s birthday. She passed almost 3 years ago in June. And I’ve been a little afraid to think about writing about her, but your post has inspired and moved me. Maybe I’ll try writing a letter to her tomorrow. Thank you for this.
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What a great idea your dad has! And an even better list for your slice.
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What a wonderful idea to imagine your mom’s life. Your choices illuminated her, her spirit alive in you.
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