I closed the glass-paneled door gently behind me and started down toward the water. A slight breeze reminded me that I might be underdressed. “Yes,” it said, “it is a clear sunny day, but don’t forget. . . it is March.” Oh well, this time outside would be short, I thought. Just a short walk to the water, a short break from the kids. I’ll be fine.
I held my phone close to my ear and slowly meandered toward the lazy river that runs behind my house. On the other end of the line, I listened as one of my oldest and dearest friends recounted stories, catching me up on his life: As a principal, he will still go to work, even though his school is closed. His daughter remains in Europe, and this worries him. Stockpiling toilet paper is an issue. And other things. I caught him up a little on my life, too.
Standing on my dock now, I gazed out at the dark water slowly flowing by. It reminded me of time. Barely moving. Hard to discern the passage. I thought about how long it had been since I had spoken with my friend. Weeks? Months? How is that possible? We live on opposite coasts, but still . . .
Turning my back on the water, I slowly made my way back toward the house. It felt good to connect with an old friend. Even if only for a short bit. It felt good.
I also heard from an old friend this weekend. She called to hear my voice and make sure I was still okay, since she’d read that our PA county was on lock down. So, there are some positives to come out of all this uncertainty.
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Your slice is a good reminder that we all need to pick up the phone right now. Social distancing should not be in physical distancing from those we care about.
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*should not mean
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Like your metaphor of the river to describe time flowing – although it often feels more like a torrential current than a slow meander. Keep going – over halfway there! 🙂
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There is something so special about catching up with an old friend. And it’s amazing, no matter how much time has passed, the conversations flow like it’s only been days.
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I was supposed to catch up with old friends this week, our spring break, but those plans are changing rapidly due to social distancing. I will miss those face to face talks, but imagine phone calls will happen instead. Thankful for the technology and infrastructure that exists, allowing us to maintain contact.
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Connection is the one thing we need to cultivate now. Thanks for the reminder.
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It’s a good time to connect, for sure, and I love the comparison you make in this post between the water and time. Time is going to be strange for the next few weeks, I’m sure.
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